I just had a thought today for some reason. You know how they say the first person you are with after ending a relationship is considered a rebound? Well what is it considered if you already have just been having a good time with a few gentlemen and then you may get serious with one of them. Is that still under the category of rebound or are they upgraded to a new status? I am just really confused at this dating portion of being single. Unfortunately there is one gentleman who I would consider to get serious with, but I don't want to right now and I don't want him to be a rebound. This is a terrible situation. I'm afraid to mention him to people just because I am not ready to hear, "Wow that seems soon!" Although I have been separated since October of last year. How soon is too soon anyways?
My sister the other day told me that I'm still not allowing myself to be fully alone since I'm spending time with other men. I really have been spending the majority of time on myself but is it wrong to have some fun too? Well, in my books, you need an oil change every 3000 miles, if you know what I mean. I guess I'm sending out the wrong vibe, she says. According to her, I will always find the wrong guy if I continue this pattern. I really don't want to start a pattern here. Granted, I'm not looking for a relationship but it's nice to have a date once in a while just to keep me up to date on what's going on in the dating world. This may sound like a jumbled mess but I have been pondering this for a while. It just needed to be said.
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